What do you do when you get the mizzies and are convinced that no one loves you? Like, quick little pick-me-ups when you're feeling not AWFULLY, terribly, unbearably depressed, but just sort of bleah and can't stop lying on the couch sighing loudly.
― kate, Saturday, 1 February 2003 13:19 (twenty-one years ago) link
1) listen to my favourite album2) go for a long walk through my favourite bits of London3) play guitar really really loud and make a horrendous noise4) send a random email to a friend I haven't talked to in a while and I don't write to often enough
Any other suggestions? I think Suzy will have me put down if I don't stop sighing.
― kate, Saturday, 1 February 2003 13:21 (twenty-one years ago) link
um, usually i start by taking a nap, but that doesn't always work and results in me missing deadlines ...
― maura (maura), Saturday, 1 February 2003 13:23 (twenty-one years ago) link
― jel -- (jel), Saturday, 1 February 2003 13:25 (twenty-one years ago) link
― kate, Saturday, 1 February 2003 13:26 (twenty-one years ago) link
― jel -- (jel), Saturday, 1 February 2003 13:29 (twenty-one years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Saturday, 1 February 2003 13:31 (twenty-one years ago) link
― jel -- (jel), Saturday, 1 February 2003 13:35 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Andrew (enneff), Saturday, 1 February 2003 13:42 (twenty-one years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Saturday, 1 February 2003 14:02 (twenty-one years ago) link
Also, playing classic happy music. I go for late '50s Louis Prima generally. Or watching the right TV/vids - not-too-familiar Simpsons is good, if you have any.
― Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Saturday, 1 February 2003 14:12 (twenty-one years ago) link
I'm trying to avoid:
-eating (cause I put on a stone over Xmas and it's still going)-spending money (cause I have none)-crushboys (cause I scare the shit out of them with my dog-girl "I love you I love you I love you pay attention to me I love you!" antics)-boozing-watching TV. it's boring, innit?
I am going out tonight. I'm meeting up with someone I am VERY interested in talking to (not a crushboy, in fact, not a boy at all) and then I'm going to the Arse Cafe. Maybe Hilton will turn up, maybe I'll spend the night perving on Pliny's asslessness. But it's far more likely that I'll end up reminiscing about The Old Days with Gary Ladybug. Hooray.
-"a cup of tea" is always the proper English response. But too much caffeine makes me hyper and hypermediated and hypersexualised.
― kate, Saturday, 1 February 2003 14:35 (twenty-one years ago) link
Ice lollies are good too. The ones I have are only 33 calories, so that's hardly terribly fattening, and you shouldn't be worrying about that anyway.
― Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Saturday, 1 February 2003 14:47 (twenty-one years ago) link
Except for Rocket Pops. I like Rocket Pops, but you can't get them in this country. :-(
― kate, Saturday, 1 February 2003 14:53 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Ronan (Ronan), Saturday, 1 February 2003 16:13 (twenty-one years ago) link
Right now I'm dressing up. Yeah. Look good, feel good, that's it. My suede trousers might even make an appearance. But now watch Hilton not even turn up at all... ah well, Pliny can marvel at my ass in suede trousers and be amazed. Or something. :-)
― kate, Saturday, 1 February 2003 16:26 (twenty-one years ago) link
― di smith (lucylurex), Saturday, 1 February 2003 16:27 (twenty-one years ago) link
My other suggestion is Underworld-Everything, Everything, but again I can't see that being too helpful.
― Ronan (Ronan), Saturday, 1 February 2003 16:28 (twenty-one years ago) link
Well, not true, but I find watching the film I've nicked the quote from helps. Dancing in the kitchen is another one. Do anything really, anything other than lying on the sofa/ the bed will make you feel better, even walking to the shops.
― Anna (Anna), Saturday, 1 February 2003 16:55 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Saturday, 1 February 2003 16:58 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Nicole (Nicole), Saturday, 1 February 2003 17:13 (twenty-one years ago) link
same applies for recs: for instance, stay clear of coldplay if you're feeling down.
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Saturday, 1 February 2003 17:17 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Nicole (Nicole), Saturday, 1 February 2003 17:20 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Saturday, 1 February 2003 17:26 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Lara (Lara), Saturday, 1 February 2003 17:31 (twenty-one years ago) link
― geeta (geeta), Saturday, 1 February 2003 17:39 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Saturday, 1 February 2003 17:54 (twenty-one years ago) link
I forgot about painting!
― jel -- (jel), Saturday, 1 February 2003 18:13 (twenty-one years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Saturday, 1 February 2003 18:25 (twenty-one years ago) link
haha, actually, the last time i felt like this, i put on "ghetto fabulous" by baxendale and it TOTALLY cheered me up.
― sand.y, Saturday, 1 February 2003 18:33 (twenty-one years ago) link
I am waiting for chris b to put that on the Bad Advice ILE Has Given You thread.
― N. (nickdastoor), Saturday, 1 February 2003 18:35 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Maria (Maria), Saturday, 1 February 2003 20:42 (twenty-one years ago) link
Oh, also: Drinking! That's always a good answer.
― Chris P (Chris P), Saturday, 1 February 2003 20:47 (twenty-one years ago) link
― sand.y, Saturday, 1 February 2003 20:48 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Mary (Mary), Saturday, 1 February 2003 21:52 (twenty-one years ago) link
Am feeling better. Good food, good talk, good show, good company (and utterly perplexing email from crushboy) and PLINY STICKING HIS TONGUE OUT AT ME!!! (excuse me! don't point that at me unless you plan on using it!) have all cheered me up immensely.
Aaaaahhhhhh... Pliny... he's so lovely.
― kate, Sunday, 2 February 2003 00:34 (twenty-one years ago) link
― di smith (lucylurex), Sunday, 2 February 2003 03:43 (twenty-one years ago) link
Whatever tape I made right now would probably be quite odd. Does anyone want a star-rock wank-fantasy mixtape?
― kate, Sunday, 2 February 2003 09:06 (twenty-one years ago) link
― sand.y, Sunday, 2 February 2003 22:50 (twenty-one years ago) link
― electric sound of jim (electricsound), Sunday, 2 February 2003 22:51 (twenty-one years ago) link
I don't feel unloved today, I was in the studio for most of the day and it was GOOD. Was in such a good mood that I asked Hilton to marry me so we could be the dronerock Sonny and Cher. This will make him squirm and be awkward in such an adorable way, the poor dear. I bet he'll be horrified.
But he still won't sleep with me...
― kate, Sunday, 2 February 2003 22:54 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Sunday, 2 February 2003 22:57 (twenty-one years ago) link
He probably thinks I'm nuts. I probably am nuts. But that doesn't stop him from being groovy.
Hrmmm, Tracer you'd like a chewy, psychedelic bubblegum mixtape? If you're really like one, I might actually make one. Send your snail mail address to my yahoo account, and if the White Russians didn't kill my tape deck I'll make you one!
― kate, Sunday, 2 February 2003 23:05 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Sunday, 2 February 2003 23:07 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Sunday, 2 February 2003 23:17 (twenty-one years ago) link
"Some Velvet Morning" is, well, dark psychedelic bubblegum. I'm thinking more "Anyway That You Want Me" and "The Grooviest Girl In The World" type bubblegum.
I am going to stop thinking about this now. Honest.
― kate, Sunday, 2 February 2003 23:40 (twenty-one years ago) link
Also, going to pet shops always cheers me up
― isadora (isadora), Sunday, 2 February 2003 23:50 (twenty-one years ago) link
Pet shops make me miserable. The poor animals in cages.
God, and the Big Book Of British Smiles is on the telly. Fan-fucking-tastic.
― kate, Sunday, 2 February 2003 23:56 (twenty-one years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Sunday, 2 February 2003 23:57 (twenty-one years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Sunday, 2 February 2003 23:59 (twenty-one years ago) link
Yes please! I know it ought to be brilliant.
― Nicole (Nicole), Monday, 3 February 2003 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link
― isadora (isadora), Monday, 3 February 2003 00:00 (twenty-one years ago) link
OK, Nicole - Tracer just claimed the tape, but I'll make two. It will give me something to do that isn't moon around over Hilton. And it's an excuse to listen through my favourite records for my idea of the "Bubblegum Arkestra" that we're working on.
But that's it! I haven't made a mixtape in a year, and now I'm making two.
I should just get a dog. Really.
― kate, Monday, 3 February 2003 00:03 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Nicole (Nicole), Monday, 3 February 2003 00:05 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Nicole (Nicole), Monday, 3 February 2003 00:08 (twenty-one years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Monday, 3 February 2003 00:11 (twenty-one years ago) link
I'm not bothered either way by kittens (except, well, Hilton seems to be having a terrible time with his poor cat being taken away from him, which upsets me cause it upsets him) but PUPPIES just make me goon and sigh like the first Magnetic Fields album.
Especially this feller. He actually kind of reminds me a bit of Hilton (except Hilton isn't blonde.) They've got the same expresssion:
http://www.e-michael.jp/userdogs_thumb/ame2_thumb_1.jpg
― kate, Monday, 3 February 2003 00:14 (twenty-one years ago) link
http://www.e-michael.jp/gallery/nemuiyo_thumb.JPG
― kate, Monday, 3 February 2003 00:16 (twenty-one years ago) link
― N. (nickdastoor), Monday, 3 February 2003 00:18 (twenty-one years ago) link
Please, please, PLEASE can I have a puppy like this:
http://www.e-michael.jp/gallery_thumb/kuropome3_thumb.jpg
I'd even stop whinging about how Hilton won't sleep with me cause I'd be too busy going on about how cute my puppy was. If only I could train a puppy to climb the stairs to my bed, then I could snuggle with puppy... wait, that sounds kinda kinky and it's really not intended that way.
― kate, Monday, 3 February 2003 00:18 (twenty-one years ago) link
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 3 February 2003 00:20 (twenty-one years ago) link
Oh, Hilton. Oh, puppies. I'm not depressed any more.
― kate, Monday, 3 February 2003 00:21 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 3 February 2003 00:27 (twenty-one years ago) link
― kate, Monday, 3 February 2003 00:29 (twenty-one years ago) link
― mark s (mark s), Monday, 3 February 2003 00:34 (twenty-one years ago) link
― forbidden or obsolete (24 hour troubleshooter), Monday, 3 February 2003 00:40 (twenty-one years ago) link
― electric sound of jim (electricsound), Monday, 3 February 2003 00:41 (twenty-one years ago) link
I also read old journals to cheer myself up.
Sometimes I'll even call my mom or one of my sisters.
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Monday, 3 February 2003 15:00 (twenty-one years ago) link
― suzy (suzy), Monday, 3 February 2003 15:07 (twenty-one years ago) link
― JuliaA (j_bdules), Monday, 3 February 2003 18:48 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Monday, 3 February 2003 18:49 (twenty-one years ago) link
And, yes, I hated her.
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Monday, 3 February 2003 18:51 (twenty-one years ago) link
― No One (SiggyBaby), Monday, 3 February 2003 19:03 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Monday, 3 February 2003 20:39 (twenty-one years ago) link
::ducks::
― kate, Monday, 3 February 2003 20:40 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Monday, 3 February 2003 20:43 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 3 February 2003 20:45 (twenty-one years ago) link
― Martin Skidmore (Martin Skidmore), Monday, 3 February 2003 21:10 (twenty-one years ago) link
I have a dog - it lives 4000 miles away from me, at my mother's house. It is a small black moppy poodle called Willie and it is a criminal mastermind.
― suzy (suzy), Monday, 3 February 2003 21:26 (twenty-one years ago) link