Until very recently I was learning brand new things every single day in school, college and university. Then I graduated and found myself jobless and having to depend on jumping from temp job to temp job wiping down bars, building office blocks, sorting files, selling advertising space, moving boxes out of lorries, moving them back in again, entering data, hearing people moan on the phone, moaning at people on the phone, selling windows and getting moaned at even more on the phone etc...
And I find this shit really hard - I simply can't do it! Nothing they give me at my company should be beyond me - I work out quotes, chase people up on the phone, organise mailshots, fax shit around etc. This is something a sixteen year old girl could do with no real problems - yet here's me, English Language and Linguistics "extraordinaire", not knowing what the heck is going on half the time!
Then I feel bad because I should know what I'm doing as it's so easy compared to what I've had to do in the past. So yeh, anyway - I don't know if this is down to me not having had to flexed my cranial abs for the last two years or just because what I'm doing now is for the birds and my head just won't let me learn it.
Can anybody empathise with me here? Did you find yourself getting dumber when you left full-time education? Any methods to get back into the loop (like reading regularly etc)?
― dog latin (dog latin), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 07:48 (twenty-one years ago)
i think you are probably right though and that many people would agree with you. same as in all areas of life, people just get a bit lazy. personally i cannot really empathise because i have avoided this problem by becoming a sort of perpetual university student. i'm in the middle of my 8th year of uni. that is pathetic isn't it, i'm embarrassed. can anyone empathise with me?
― gem (trisk), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 07:53 (twenty-one years ago)
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― MarkH (MarkH), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 07:57 (twenty-one years ago)
― dog latin (dog latin), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 07:58 (twenty-one years ago)
studying stuff for fun is good too, i had a break from uni between degrees and did heaps of different stuff at TAFE (that's like an adult ed college if you're not australian) like computing and arty stuff and whatnot, i loved it and met tonnes of cool people too. i actually don't think i could ever "not" study something.
― gem (trisk), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:01 (twenty-one years ago)
― Archel (Archel), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:01 (twenty-one years ago)
1) It's not "easy compared to what I've had to do in the past" - if it was easy, then you'd be fine doing it. It requires a different set of skills - ones which you have yet to learn. Just because it's more menial, doesn't make it any less difficult.
2) Seems to me that the brain is like any other muscle - stop using it, and it'll get less efficient. Reading helps. Not watching telly helps. If you have a desk, pin up a poem and memorise a new one every week - that helps. Keep your brain moving, otherwise it'll fade away. And I dunno about you, but knowing that one day my brain's gonna turn to mush is about the only thing about old age that I'm scared of.
Someone else expand please - I gotta get back to my "shitty office job".
― Johnney B (Johnney B), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:02 (twenty-one years ago)
After working in IT for 2 years I felt my brain going mushy so I started taking some classes. The first 2 months I felt like I had lost my brains - but it all came back and now I feel sharpish again.
― marianna, Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:02 (twenty-one years ago)
I recommend crosswords.
― Archel (Archel), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:03 (twenty-one years ago)
― dog latin (dog latin), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:06 (twenty-one years ago)
― gem (trisk), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:11 (twenty-one years ago)
― dog latin (dog latin), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:15 (twenty-one years ago)
― gem (trisk), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:18 (twenty-one years ago)
Tuition fees are more or less the same here, they come out as an extra tax.
― dog latin (dog latin), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:26 (twenty-one years ago)
Money - I have so much debt already that I wouldn't have been able to do this masters (no deferred fees/student loans for post-grads!) if it wasn't for the fee waiver scheme for university staff. As it is I find it hard to survive on my reduced salary although I still work over 30 hours a week :(
― Archel (Archel), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:33 (twenty-one years ago)
― dog latin (dog latin), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:39 (twenty-one years ago)
― g-kit (g-kit), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:41 (twenty-one years ago)
I would also like to point out the obvious fact that smoking large amounts of weed do NOT help this process in the slightest...
― Rob Bolton (Rob Bolton), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:42 (twenty-one years ago)
― gem (trisk), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:43 (twenty-one years ago)
Shit, that's all I ever do too. Oh dear, maybe Pavement aren't the intellectual rock band I thought they were. Monkeys!
― dog latin (dog latin), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:47 (twenty-one years ago)
― Rob Bolton (Rob Bolton), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:50 (twenty-one years ago)
― dog latin (dog latin), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:50 (twenty-one years ago)
― gem (trisk), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:52 (twenty-one years ago)
― dog latin (dog latin), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 08:55 (twenty-one years ago)
― dog latin (dog latin), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 09:04 (twenty-one years ago)
― Archel (Archel), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 09:07 (twenty-one years ago)
This is a good question. I like what Johnney said above about different skillsets...sometimes I get afraid that I didn't really learn much past the age of 8, but I'm doing stuff in my job now that I never thought I'd be able to--namely, talk to people and be confrontational even!
If you have a desk, pin up a poem and memorise a new one every week - that helps. I do like this though, it seems like I used to memorise stuff just for the hell of it when I was young and it was a nice habit.
― teeny (teeny), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 09:26 (twenty-one years ago)
― Rob Bolton (Rob Bolton), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 09:40 (twenty-one years ago)
I feel a lot dimmer as Ive got older... I need to start reading and playing Go and scrabble and triv again to give my brain a workout.
Im terrified of getting dementia.
― Trayce (trayce), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 09:53 (twenty-one years ago)
I lead a fairly cerebral working life, but as soon as I come home I often feel like a complete dullard. All I want to do is watch TV and curl up on the couch, which is something I never used to do. I think I went without TV for almost a year at one point.
I have 'home projects' and the like, but I have to really force myself to get stuff done most nights, to the point of staring blankly at the screen hoping I can do work through 'brayne powar'. Sadly, it is ineffectual (Although I can stare down anyone, you just try me).
Oh, and a side note, hi. I lurked before, but now I post.
― PlayfulPuppy, Tuesday, 22 June 2004 10:11 (twenty-one years ago)
― Trayce (trayce), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 10:19 (twenty-one years ago)
― Johnney B (Johnney B), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 10:46 (twenty-one years ago)
― Archel (Archel), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 11:02 (twenty-one years ago)
― ken c (ken c), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 11:04 (twenty-one years ago)
― dog latin (dog latin), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 12:22 (twenty-one years ago)
A good way I've found to discipline myself so that I don't spend too much time on the interweb or in front of the TV has been to map out my time. For instance, I get home from work around 6:30, I relax until 7 (email etc), then I head downstairs to the coffee shop and read for an hour. Then it's dinner etc. It's a quick example but helps a lot.
― The Devil's Triad (calstars), Tuesday, 22 June 2004 15:00 (twenty-one years ago)
― dog latin (dog latin), Saturday, 11 March 2006 03:27 (twenty years ago)