I really fancy blond men. Both the floppy haired, white-blond public school variety (Julian Sands. Boris Johnson.) and also the sort of red-gold strawberry blond variety. (Jared Harris. David Bowie.)
Yet lots of women I know don't fancy blond men at all, in fact say that there's something revolting, icky, or even effeminate about blond men.
My brother is blond, and both he and a blond ex-boyfriend of mine have said the same thing - that they get saddled with one of a few stereotypes:
1) The Nazi2) The Surfer Dude3) The Homosexual
What is it about blond men? Praise or bury?
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:03 (nineteen years ago)
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:06 (nineteen years ago)
― Jarlr'mai (jarlrmai), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:09 (nineteen years ago)
― Earwig oh! (Mark C), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:10 (nineteen years ago)
It had never occurred to me that a lot of women don't fancy blonde men. Although to be honest, the number of blonde guys I know is very low. I wonder why?
― Matt DC (Matt DC), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:14 (nineteen years ago)
― Ed (dali), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:14 (nineteen years ago)
I don't think that men "help" their hair on the same level - dying hair has not become as universally accepted among men as it is among women, even post David Beckham and his bleach.
So that the low level of blond men most people know corresponds to the low level of natural blonds, fullstop.
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:19 (nineteen years ago)
― Konal Doddz (blueski), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:23 (nineteen years ago)
― Revivalist (Revivalist), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:24 (nineteen years ago)
― Toad Roundgrin (noodle vague), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:25 (nineteen years ago)
i was talking to a blond man sometime in the last week or so and looking at his blond hair but now i can't even remember who it was. damn...
― emsk ( emsk), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:26 (nineteen years ago)
Or perhaps it's something in the nature of the blond archetype - that a lot of it projection of innocence (going back to that "blonde as a child" thing) - or of sexual vulnerability and/or availability. Not things that are supposed to be associated with males.
(And perhaps that's why I like it, old pervert that I am.)
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:27 (nineteen years ago)
― Zora (Zora), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:27 (nineteen years ago)
But complaints have often been levelled against Roger Moore not being the definitive Bond because he was "too blond". (Though what on earth Daniel Craig is going to do to this stereotype...)
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:28 (nineteen years ago)
Not entirely convinced. He's not really a man's man action type, is he? He's not a role model for boys. He's more the type a girl would want to take home to meet her parents. He's definitely in touch with his feminine side.
― Revivalist (Revivalist), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:31 (nineteen years ago)
― beanz (beanz), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:34 (nineteen years ago)
― Jarlr'mai (jarlrmai), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:34 (nineteen years ago)
― Revivalist (Revivalist), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:35 (nineteen years ago)
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:37 (nineteen years ago)
Yes, there is, errrrrrrrrrrrrr, Steve McQueen :)
― Dadaismus (Are we in love like I think we be?) (Dada), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:48 (nineteen years ago)
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:50 (nineteen years ago)
― Revivalist (Revivalist), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:52 (nineteen years ago)
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:54 (nineteen years ago)
Also dirt makes blond hair go darker. I remember Rod Stewart (definitely blond) talking about a photo of him on some album cover where his hair is so dirty it looks brown, so people thought he was a brunet. (What is the male of brunette?)
Adam is definitely a blond, but I remember that in the winter, especially if his hair was dirty, he looked distinctly ginger. (Not that I minded that one bit, mind you.)
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 09:56 (nineteen years ago)
― Revivalist (Revivalist), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:04 (nineteen years ago)
― Dadaismus (Are we in love like I think we be?) (Dada), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:08 (nineteen years ago)
― Revivalist (Revivalist), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:10 (nineteen years ago)
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:14 (nineteen years ago)
― Revivalist (Revivalist), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:19 (nineteen years ago)
― Ed (dali), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:20 (nineteen years ago)
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:21 (nineteen years ago)
― Revivalist (Revivalist), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:24 (nineteen years ago)
I used to be blonde; I'm not really now; but I've always had very dark eyebrows.
― Forest Pines (ForestPines), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:25 (nineteen years ago)
And also the girl next door innocent blonde, the milkmaid, farmer's daughter etc. blonde.
And there's Barbie which is somewhere between and yet neither.
(Argh, this is just going to get me started thinking about the Guardian article on Paris Hilton and I'll get really wound up. When this thread was supposed to be an excuse to talk about hott blonde boys.)
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:26 (nineteen years ago)
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:27 (nineteen years ago)
Errol Flynn... bloke who played Tarzan... was Douglas Firbanks blond or am I thinking of someone else?
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:29 (nineteen years ago)
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:30 (nineteen years ago)
Hitchcock definitely had some evil blond guys, but I can't remember which film offhand.
― Revivalist (Revivalist), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:31 (nineteen years ago)
http://www.errolflynn.net/custerco.jpg
Though that hair pomade they used to slick their hair back, back then didn't help with colour identification.
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:32 (nineteen years ago)
Indeed, but have you ever seen a brunette with fair eyebrows? *shudder, what a horrible thought*
I mean, from that era you never see any strikingly blond male stars, do you.
Van Johnson, Richard Widmark... sort of Scandinavian/German American types. I'm sure there's more... Kirk Douglas! (representing the Russian Jewish Blond Massive - see also Danny Kaye!!)
― Dadaismus (Are we in love like I think we be?) (Dada), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:33 (nineteen years ago)
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:34 (nineteen years ago)
― Revivalist (Revivalist), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:36 (nineteen years ago)
http://thor.mirtna.org/evilblondmen.html
― Revivalist (Revivalist), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:40 (nineteen years ago)
― Dadaismus (Are we in love like I think we be?) (Dada), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:41 (nineteen years ago)
http://www.occhiaperti.net/pix/ila/tom%20yorke.jpg
Oh my lord, this one is so big it's scary, I don't like portraits that are bigger than life size so I will link:
http://blog1.musicfield.jp/du_ds11/archives/Thom%20Yorke.jpg
x-post, oooh, theory of Evil Blond Dudes, I shall have to read that. maybe even send it to my brother, since he is determined to be one.
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:43 (nineteen years ago)
Except Brad sPitt is so not blond.
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:45 (nineteen years ago)
http://arosumi-cyobi-jovi.de-blog.jp/800/images/Birdland-Sleep-With-Me_thumb.jpg
― Jerry the Nipper (Jerrynipper), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:45 (nineteen years ago)
― Matt DC (Matt DC), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:58 (nineteen years ago)
― electric sound of jim [and why not] (electricsound), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:58 (nineteen years ago)
― Matt DC (Matt DC), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 10:59 (nineteen years ago)
― Jarlr'mai (jarlrmai), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 11:21 (nineteen years ago)
― Ed (dali), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 11:54 (nineteen years ago)
― Nathalie (stevie nixed), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 11:59 (nineteen years ago)
Interestingly this is a type I thought a lot of in younger days (before I dated anyone at all), and then somehow never actually ran across as an adult, until recently. (Possible this is because they all live in summer towns/California where they can squint manfully against the sun all year 'round as they chart their marine escapades.)
― Laurel (Laurel), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 12:04 (nineteen years ago)
― salexandra (salexander), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 12:05 (nineteen years ago)
have had the 'queer' thing levelled at me from random strangers in the street, passing cars, people on public transport etc etc etc roughly twice a week non stop since forver. it's...*insane* the whole 'gay thing' you get with the colour, and if i happen to fasten the middle button on my denim jacket while i'm wandering through the streets...well i may aswell be singing 'i am what i am' at the top of my voice.
occasionally it isnt 'gay' stuff and you get 'oi (insert name of then-famous blond perosn)' so it's a good barometer of who's hot in popular culture but not much else! i've had 'oi erasure' oddly a couple of times recently, it was les dennis for about 6 months, it was 'oi thompson twins' (!!) once in front of about 500 people. you just...get abuse in the streets! and you know that it's nothing to do with your face or shape or size it's ALL literally to do with the hair colour. whenever i talk to people about they don't believe me, or think i'm making it up or exaggerating but...man!
still we have more fum so fuck em.
― Goneblonde (piscesx), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 12:44 (nineteen years ago)
http://www.clubclique.co.uk/gallery_pages_august05/3.htm
― pisces (piscesx), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 12:45 (nineteen years ago)
1) Steve McQueen was blonde. In fact very blonde. Please don't get confused by the quality of fading color photographs scanned into GIS; yes some of them make him look a bit darker but this is a photo taken in the later days of his life (after hair should darken significantly):http://www.mesothel.com/images/McQueen.gif
2) There are indeed plenty of brunettes with light eyebrows, just as some blondes have heavy eyebrows.
Anyway, I fancy guys mostly with darker blonde hair, not so much super light but I'd take a light blonde over a dark haired dude almost always. I like surfer dude looks, to use the stereotype upthread.
― Allyzay will never stop making pancakes (allyzay), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 13:05 (nineteen years ago)
My father was blond. I don't usually go for the blond look, but it suits Jurgen Klinsmann quite well.
http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/41870000/jpg/_41870142_klinsmann203.jpg
― Mary (Mary), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 14:29 (nineteen years ago)
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 14:30 (nineteen years ago)
― Allyzay will never stop making pancakes (allyzay), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 14:32 (nineteen years ago)
In earlier years:
http://www.givemefootball.com/images/jurgen_bi.jpg
x-post
― Mary (Mary), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 14:34 (nineteen years ago)
Putin is kind of hot, though.
http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/yeltsin/art/putin1.jpg
It's those cheekbones, though, not the blond hair. He looks like he could be in Kraftwerk:
http://cnn.hu/WORLD/europe/9911/25/russia.chechnya.02/link.putin.jpg
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 14:36 (nineteen years ago)
― Allyzay will never stop making pancakes (allyzay), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 14:37 (nineteen years ago)
also: STeve McQueen = HOT
― sunny successor (katharine), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 14:39 (nineteen years ago)
Is this going to be another of those "I say toe-MAH-toe, you say, toe-MAY-toe, I fancy Thom Yorke and Vladimir Putin and you fancy Jude Law, let's call the whole thing off" threads?
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 14:40 (nineteen years ago)
― i've dreamt of rubies! (Mandee), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 14:41 (nineteen years ago)
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 14:44 (nineteen years ago)
ilx.wh3rd.net/thread.php?msgid=3633208
― Allyzay will never stop making pancakes (allyzay), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 14:47 (nineteen years ago)
― Allyzay will never stop making pancakes (allyzay), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 14:50 (nineteen years ago)
― timmy tannin (pompous), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 14:56 (nineteen years ago)
― i've dreamt of rubies! (Mandee), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 14:57 (nineteen years ago)
― Alfred, Lord Sotosyn (Alfred Soto), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 15:00 (nineteen years ago)
Whatever it is, it is the best thing ever.
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 15:02 (nineteen years ago)
I don't like blond soccer players as much as brown-haired ones, but there are some acceptable ones. Even Beckham looked good during the World Cup, with his more muted hair style.
Michael Owen
http://www.wldcup.com/pictures/euro2004/17733.jpg
Paul Scholes
http://www.carling.com/media/player_images/player-image-1058.jpg
(I thought he was blond, but is more red?)
― Mary (Mary), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 15:14 (nineteen years ago)
― Konal Doddz (blueski), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 15:18 (nineteen years ago)
― sunny successor (katharine), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 15:18 (nineteen years ago)
http://img403.imageshack.us/img403/315/joelsoupjpg2ee.jpg
― sunny successor (katharine), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 15:25 (nineteen years ago)
http://www.arrakis.es/~e.miquel/rnranimal/images/loupics/lou75blonde.jpg
― Alfred, Lord Sotosyn (Alfred Soto), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 15:30 (nineteen years ago)
― sunny successor (katharine), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 15:32 (nineteen years ago)
― timmy tannin (pompous), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 15:33 (nineteen years ago)
― Matt DC (Matt DC), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 15:53 (nineteen years ago)
― jed_ (jed), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 15:54 (nineteen years ago)
― Sara R-C (Sara R-C), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 15:56 (nineteen years ago)
(actually i kinda thought it was an unspoken thing about putin that everyone found him vaguely sexy)
― jed_ (jed), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 16:06 (nineteen years ago)
― sunny successor (katharine), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 16:28 (nineteen years ago)
But my boyfriend is blonde so I would say that.
Somebody please post some pictures of John Philip Law in Barbarella and Danger: Diabolik or Terence Stamp in Satyricon and Teorema so we can hot up the place a bit.
― Drew Daniel (Drew Daniel), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 17:04 (nineteen years ago)
Would you settle for Terence in Billy Budd?
http://www.qui-gonline.org/fanfic/youngterence.jpg
― Mary (Mary), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 18:23 (nineteen years ago)
http://www.shink.dircon.co.uk/harveynhac01.jpg
― Jerry the Nipper (Jerrynipper), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 18:59 (nineteen years ago)
― Ben Mott (Ben Mott), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 19:20 (nineteen years ago)
http://static.flickr.com/49/188360448_8f785c90ce.jpg
― Drew Daniel (Drew Daniel), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 21:53 (nineteen years ago)
http://static.flickr.com/51/188360449_e8dd20221b.jpg
― Drew Daniel (Drew Daniel), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 21:55 (nineteen years ago)
(hopefully most of these will work)
hard to tell sometimes in his later life, but this seems conclusive enough http://static.flickr.com/76/188380858_da66863d78_o.jpg
http://www.nndb.com/people/878/000025803/estevez2.jpg
http://www.tabloidbaby.com/Book/Companion/River.jpg
http://www.orfeo.ru/img/57.jpg
http://drunkenchopstickbite.tripod.com/sitebuildercontent/sitebuilderpictures/caryelwes.jpg
http://www.fantastico.uma.es/2005/rutger_hauer1.jpg
http://www.kodice.com/pekatus/tios/monograficos/val%20kilmer/val%20kilmer%2019.jpg
http://www.movie-gazette.com/directory/img/owen+wilson.jpg
even this guy wasn't exactly raven hairedhttp://www.tam.co.il/5_11_2004/images/shatner.jpg
― Kim (Kim), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 22:57 (nineteen years ago)
that was carey elwes, but he only just barely made the cut anyway so it's probably for the best.
― Kim (Kim), Wednesday, 12 July 2006 23:02 (nineteen years ago)
― Kim (Kim), Thursday, 13 July 2006 00:10 (nineteen years ago)
LADIES?
― tremendoid (tremendoid), Thursday, 13 July 2006 00:51 (nineteen years ago)
― timmy tannin (pompous), Thursday, 13 July 2006 01:17 (nineteen years ago)
Martin Potter in Satyricon
― Drew Daniel (Drew Daniel), Thursday, 13 July 2006 01:26 (nineteen years ago)
― caitlin oh no (caitxa1), Thursday, 13 July 2006 01:42 (nineteen years ago)
bla-ooooooooooonde
― Kim (Kim), Thursday, 13 July 2006 03:44 (nineteen years ago)
― timmy tannin (pompous), Thursday, 13 July 2006 04:54 (nineteen years ago)
Wow, that Martin Potter photos sure is pretty. Aw, Pygar, too. "A Canadian does not make love, a Canadian IS love!"
― Thom Yorke Is My Spirit Guide (kate), Thursday, 13 July 2006 08:11 (nineteen years ago)