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Does drinking daily for long enough cause alcoholism in all people or is it only those who are *genetically predisposed* to alcholism that will become alcoholic?

Is alcohol a genuine drug of addiction and physical dependency?

miele kitty (miele), Thursday, 22 June 2006 06:24 (nineteen years ago)

I only ask because I've got drunk every day for 3 weeks and I like it and want to know if I can keep on doing it with imperviousness...

miele kitty (miele), Thursday, 22 June 2006 06:25 (nineteen years ago)

Is alcohol a genuine drug of addiction and physical dependency?

Withdrawal can cause seizures and even death, so yeah, its a drug of physical dependency

splates (splates), Thursday, 22 June 2006 09:35 (nineteen years ago)

I should ask my granny. Apparently she was an addict from *the first drink*. (Meaning, she just took to it...) She survived but can't have a drop of alcohol ever again.

I think it's a combination of factors, really. Physical as well as mental.

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Thursday, 22 June 2006 09:38 (nineteen years ago)

I think that after about a month you start to feel really dizzy all the time, which might put you off. But you don't have to get drunk every day to be an alcoholic, I think it takes much less than that.

PJ Miller (PJ Miller 68), Thursday, 22 June 2006 09:45 (nineteen years ago)

"Once DT's begin, there is no known medical treatment to stop them. Grand mal seizures, heart attacks and stroke can occur during the DT's, all of which can be fatal."

That's pretty harsh. I think I'll get a gym membership or something instead of continuing drinking... bring on the exercise induced endophins.

miele kitty (miele), Thursday, 22 June 2006 13:23 (nineteen years ago)

I've always preferred binge drinking, with a beer or two a day in between, which is practically like being dry all week.

Fluffy Bear (Fluffy Bear Hearts Rainbows), Thursday, 22 June 2006 13:49 (nineteen years ago)

A friend of hours had a DT once. Saw rats, not in his kitchen, but in his living room. He jumped on the mantlepiece until my dad came to rescue him.

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Thursday, 22 June 2006 14:02 (nineteen years ago)

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PROPPER

Fluffy Bear (Fluffy Bear Hearts Rainbows), Thursday, 22 June 2006 14:12 (nineteen years ago)

Oh man, that is good stuff.

Offisa Pump (Rock Hardy), Thursday, 22 June 2006 14:16 (nineteen years ago)

I've got drunk every day for 3 weeks and I like it and want to know if I can keep on doing it with imperviousness...

we should go drinking together MK, I did this for a while and it was great! I, er, had to stop after a while though.

indie disco dancer, sweet romancer (haitch), Thursday, 22 June 2006 15:10 (nineteen years ago)

plus let's be honest, exercise is rubbish.

indie disco dancer, sweet romancer (haitch), Thursday, 22 June 2006 15:32 (nineteen years ago)

I think I managed about six weeks constantly, every single night, after my university finals. I only stopped when I ran out of money. It was fun while it lasted but there's no way I could keep that up in everyday life.

Matt DC (Matt DC), Thursday, 22 June 2006 15:43 (nineteen years ago)

I think I got at least tipsy every night when I was travelling in Oz and Asia for six months. Do I win?

chap who would dare to be a nerd, not a geek (chap), Thursday, 22 June 2006 16:01 (nineteen years ago)

Yes eventually the fun of this wears off and misery creeps in. (nb, that's also called aging)

Miss Misery xox (MissMiseryTX), Thursday, 22 June 2006 16:07 (nineteen years ago)

> misery creeps in.

HI DERE

100% CHAMPS with a Yes! Attitude. (Austin, Still), Thursday, 22 June 2006 16:08 (nineteen years ago)

i have drank every day for months. All i've got from it is Fun.

jeffrey (johnson), Thursday, 22 June 2006 20:22 (nineteen years ago)

I only ask because I've got drunk every day for 3 weeks and I like it and want to know if I can keep on doing it with imperviousness...

-- miele kitty (miel...), June 22nd, 2006.

If you sincerely want to keep drinking after being drunk every day for 3 weeks, I'd wonder if you might already have alcoholic tendencies. Unless of course you're in college and this is the only time you've ever done something like this.

I'd also point out that you could be doing some liver damage if you keep going.

Abbadavid Berman (Hurting), Thursday, 22 June 2006 20:40 (nineteen years ago)

define "getting drunk every night" - are we talking sloppy puking I-fell-down-in-the-street-and-can't-find-my-way-home drunk? I mean, I probably have a couple beers/drinks after work on an almost daily basis. (Actual drunkenness reserved for band rehearsals and weekends.)

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 22 June 2006 21:01 (nineteen years ago)

Also, 2 beers a night - every night except friday, saturday & sunday (anything up to eight a night) Acceptable or What?

Matt DC (Matt DC), Thursday, 22 June 2006 21:18 (nineteen years ago)

"Once DT's begin, there is no known medical treatment to stop them. Grand mal seizures, heart attacks and stroke can occur during the DT's, all of which can be fatal."

Sorta...Benzos like Valium help though. Benzos/Barbiturates act at similar places in the brain so you can substitute the alcohol partially with Benzos, which can be medicated in a more controlled way.

splates (splates), Thursday, 22 June 2006 21:24 (nineteen years ago)

Definition: stumble, giggle, passout, wake up at 4am, all lights on and front door open. My cat is thrilled with the new routine as she gets xtra possum watching hours.

Re: Markelby's contrib. on the old thread - oh shit, it must run in the family. My bro is suffering from drinking induced fatty liver...

miele kitty (miele), Friday, 23 June 2006 00:34 (nineteen years ago)

why did i have to click on this thread while contemplating whether or not i should have another beer before i go out...

joseph (joseph), Friday, 23 June 2006 00:53 (nineteen years ago)

how to:
step 1 - go to the mars bar

bell labs (bell_labs), Friday, 23 June 2006 01:53 (nineteen years ago)

Come now, people, alcoholism is serious and bad but it takes more than three fucking weeks to develop. It isn't like smoking cigarettes. You'll get a beer gut way before you get the DTs. Don't say, "But grandpa...he was alcoholic." That's a self-fulfilling prophecy. Everyone has one alcoholic somwhere in their extended family. Alcoholism is not a demon waiting malignantly in your veins for the fortnight you drink every night.

Abbott (Abbott), Friday, 23 June 2006 02:07 (nineteen years ago)

On the other hand, if you;re thinking you ought to cut down, you probably should.

Abbott (Abbott), Friday, 23 June 2006 02:08 (nineteen years ago)

I mean, are you missing work? Are you drinking first thing in the morning? Those are bad signs. If it's just summer and you're out having a few drinks with your friends but keeping things under control otherwise, I doubt you need to start AA or anything.

Abbott (Abbott), Friday, 23 June 2006 02:10 (nineteen years ago)

i had an irish coffee yesterday morning, does that count? i wanted one this morning too..

electric sound of jim (and why not) (electricsound), Friday, 23 June 2006 02:15 (nineteen years ago)

Does drinking daily for long enough cause alcoholism in all people or is it only those who are *genetically predisposed* to alcholism that will become alcoholic?

Anyone can become an alcoholic. If you drink enough for a long enough period of time, yeah, it'll happen. You've got to do it for awhile, usually, but your personality can help or hinder that as well.

Is alcohol a genuine drug of addiction and physical dependency?

People don't get shakes or find that they have trouble dreaming (and thus reaching REM) for no reason. It comes down to this: when you don't drink, how much time do you think about drinking? Because if it takes up a sizeable chunk, that's not a good sign.

Alan Conceicao (Alan Conceicao), Friday, 23 June 2006 02:34 (nineteen years ago)

how much time do you think about drinking?

anyone down for a FAP?

jinx hijinks (sanskrit), Friday, 23 June 2006 02:37 (nineteen years ago)

Okay, but no later than 7:30, so I can catch the bus to work.

100% CHAMPS with a Yes! Attitude. (Austin, Still), Friday, 23 June 2006 02:53 (nineteen years ago)

i will go to a mars bar fap. i want to play angry samoans.

bell labs (bell_labs), Friday, 23 June 2006 03:09 (nineteen years ago)

Don't say, "But grandpa...he was alcoholic." That's a self-fulfilling prophecy. Everyone has one alcoholic somwhere in their extended family. Alcoholism is not a demon waiting malignantly in your veins for the fortnight you drink every night.

I believe there are genes that influence behavioural traits, but nurture is much bigger factor.

If Grandpa is always drinking and your dad is always drinking along with his brothers who are always drinking it affects how you see alcohol. I suppose if it leads to unpleasantness and friction at home it could put you off for life, but what if most of what you see is people having a laugh every day?

My extended family is full of fairly convivial and frequent drinkers, I'm sure it affected my attitude to drinking (i.e. drinking = good, drinking lots = better, drinking lots all the time = best).

Onimo (GerryNemo), Friday, 23 June 2006 09:36 (nineteen years ago)

Achieving Alcoholism is easy, Avoiding Alcoholism is trickier

Dadaismus (Dada), Friday, 23 June 2006 09:39 (nineteen years ago)

one month passes...
so uh a close family member (not my brother, btw) just confessed that they are an alcoholic, a "secret drinker" since age of 26, apparently 5 pints of bourbon a week or thereabouts. I'm freaked. Apart from never really noticing it (I always thought "hey so they have some nips of liquor occasionally, who cares") apparently getting a DUI arrest triggered some serious guilt/remorse/confession. I've never really felt out of control or that my own habits were damaging my health, my relationships, or my work, but now I'm wondering how wise it is to continue my habitual ingestion of weed n liquor... advice/smartass answers welcome...

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 10 August 2006 21:54 (nineteen years ago)

based on your posts, i'd say quit now

gear (gear), Thursday, 10 August 2006 22:04 (nineteen years ago)

*smartass answer

gear (gear), Thursday, 10 August 2006 22:04 (nineteen years ago)

real answer: if you feel like it's affecting you and it's 'habitual', maybe you should stop

gear (gear), Thursday, 10 August 2006 22:05 (nineteen years ago)

well I don't feel like its affecting me (and neither does my wife, for the record), and like I say I haven't ever fucked anything up because of my drinking/smoking. I've never gone to work loaded, I've never drove drunk (tho I do smoke n drive on roadtrips cuz otherwise its so fucking boring)... but it *is* habitual, a part of my routine, something I've never thought twice about, just a "its nice to have a buzz on while playing music/watching movies/lounging aroudn the house" kinda thing.

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 10 August 2006 22:11 (nineteen years ago)

(tho I do smoke n drive on roadtrips cuz otherwise its so fucking boring)...

Yeah, let's liven it up by impairing my concentration and increasing my potential to do some damage!

ailsa (ailsa), Thursday, 10 August 2006 22:14 (nineteen years ago)

I don't think there's much convincing evidence out there that stoned driver = car accident, but feel free to point some out. I haven't been in a car accident since I was 16 (and totally sober!) I've never gotten a ticket or been pulled over in my entire life.

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 10 August 2006 22:21 (nineteen years ago)

Smoking and then trying to sing the second solo from 'Comfortably Numb', however, is a different kettle of fish altogether.

Louis Jagger (Haberdager), Thursday, 10 August 2006 22:26 (nineteen years ago)

much convincing evidence out there that stoned driver = car accident

Uh, it affects your motor control, spatial relations and ability to concentrate. Driving stoned is no different from driving drunk (at equivalent levels of being drunk/stoned).

milo z (mlp), Thursday, 10 August 2006 22:30 (nineteen years ago)

the main problem with any of these types of conversations is that there is no BRIGHT LINE at which one should expect to become an alcoholic. Its all about maintaining some level of personal perspective on your own drinking habits, and, in the event that you are drinking too much to do whatever else you want to/need to do in life, you should slow it the fuck down, Chico.

Esquire, Bitch. (Big Loud Mountain Ape), Thursday, 10 August 2006 22:30 (nineteen years ago)

Driving stoned is no different from driving drunk (at equivalent levels of being drunk/stoned).


pwnd


Stoned drivers are safe drivers
by Dana Larsen (11 Jan, 2005) Two decades of research show that marijuana use may actually reduce driver accidents.

The effects of marijuana use on driving performance have been extensively researched over the last 20 years. All major studies show that marijuana consumption has little or no effect on driving ability, and may actually reduce accidents. Here's a summary of the biggest studies into pot use and driving.

A 1983 study by the US National Highway Transportation Safety Administration (NHTSA) concluded that the only significant affect of cannabis use was slower driving - arguably a positive effect of driving high.

A comprehensive 1992 NHTSA study revealed that pot is rarely involved in driving accidents, except when combined with alcohol. The study concluded that "the THC-only drivers had an [accident] responsibility rate below that of the drug free drivers." This study was buried for six years and not released until 1998.

A 1993 NHTSA study dosed Dutch drivers with THC and tested them on real Dutch roads. It concluded that THC caused no impairment except for a slight deficiency in the driver's ability to "maintain a steady lateral position on the road." This means that the THC-dosed drivers had a little trouble staying smack in the center of their lanes, but showed no other problems. The study noted that the effects of even high doses of THC were far less than that of alcohol or many prescription drugs. The study concluded that "THC's adverse effects on driving performance appear relatively small."

A massive 1998 study by the University of Adelaide and Transport South Australia examined blood samples from drivers involved in 2,500 accidents. It found that drivers with only cannabis in their systems were slightly less likely to cause accidents than those without. Drivers with both marijuana and alcohol did have a high accident responsibility rate. The report concluded, "there was no indication that marijuana by itself was a cause of fatal accidents."

In Canada, a 1999 University of Toronto meta-analysis of studies into pot and driving showed that drivers who consumed a moderate amount of pot typically refrained from passing cars and drove at a more consistent speed. The analysis also confirmed that marijuana taken alone does not increase a driver's risk of causing an accident.

A major study done by the UK Transport Research Laboratory in 2000 found that drivers under the influence of cannabis were more cautious and less likely to drive dangerously. The study examined the effects of marijuana use on drivers through four weeks of tests on driving simulators. The study was commissioned specifically to show that marijuana was impairing, and the british government was embarrassed with the study's conclusion that "marijuana users drive more safely under the influence of cannabis."

According to the Cannabis and Driving report, a comprehensive literature review published in 2000 by the UK Department of Transportation, "the majority of evidence suggests that cannabis use may result in a lower risk of [accident] culpability."

The Canadian Senate issued a major report into all aspects of marijuana in 2002. Their chapter on Driving under the influence of cannabis concludes that "Cannabis alone, particularly in low doses, has little effect on the skills involved in automobile driving."

The most recent study into drugs and driving was published in the July 2004 Journal of Accident Analysis and Prevention. Researchers at the Dutch Institute for Road Safety Research analyzed blood tests from those in traffic accidents, and found that even people with blood alcohol between 0.5% and 0.8% (below the legal limit) had a five-fold increase in the risk of serious accident. Drivers above the legal alcohol limit were 15 times more likely to have a collision. Drugs like Valium and Rohypnol produced results similar to alcohol, while cocaine and opiates showed only a small but "not statistically significant" increase in accident risk. As for the marijuana-only users? They showed absolutely no increased risk of accidents at all.


LINKS AND REFERENCES

1983 National Highway Transportation Safety Administration study: Stein, AC et al., A Simulator Study of the Combined Effects of Alcohol and Marijuana on Driving Behavior-Phase II, Washington DC: Department of Transportation (1983)
www.erowid.org/plants/cannabis/cannabis_myth12.shtml

1992 National Highway Transportation Safety Administration study: The Incidence and Role of Drugs in Fatally Injured Drivers, by K.W. Terhune, et al. of the Calspan Corp. Accident Research Group in Buffalo, NY (Report # DOT-HS-808-065)
www.drugsense.org/tfy/nhtsa1.htm

1993 National Highway Transportation Safety Administration study: Marijuana and actual Driving Performance, By Hindrik WJ Robbe and James F O'Hanlon. Institute for Human Psychopharmacology, University of Limburg
www.erowid.org/plants/cannabis/cannabis_driving4.shtml

1998 University of Adelaide and Transport South Australia study:
www.ukcia.org/research/driving4.html

1999 University of Toronto Study, Marijuana Not a Factor in Driving Accidents:
newsandevents.utoronto.ca/bin/19990329a.asp

2000 UK Transport Research Laboratory study on Cannabis and Driving:
www.mapinc.org/newscc/v00/n1161/a02.html

2000 UK Department of Transportation's Cannabis and Driving report:
www.dft.gov.uk/stellent/groups/dft_rdsafety/documents/page/dft_rdsafety_504567.hcsp

2002 Report of the Special Senate Committee on Illegal Drugs
www.parl.gc.ca/37/1/parlbus/commbus/senate/com-e/ille-e/rep-e/repfinalvol1part4-e.htm

July 2004, Journal of Accident Analysis and Prevention, Psychoactive substance use and the risk of motor vehicle accidents.
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&db=pubmed&dopt=Abstract&list_uids=15094417

For a less scientific and more amusing study of the combination of drugs and driving, go here:
www.techno.de/mixmag/interviews/Driving_on_drugs.html


A BETTER WAY TO TEST

Performance testing is better than drug testing
Cannabis Culture, January 2005
cannabisculture.com/articles/4130.html

Alternatives to Drug Testing: Performance testing Non-testers List
www.nontesterslist.com/nontesters/ptest.html

Performance testing can add an extra measure of safety
HR Magazine, February 1996
www.findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m3495/is_n2_v41/ai_18159115

An Alternative to Drug Testing
Inc Magazine, April 1995
www.inc.com/magazine/19950401/2235.html


MEDIA REPORTS ON "DRUGGED DRIVING" LAWS

UK Launches Drug Driving Tests
Daily Telegraph, December 22, 2004
www.mapinc.org/ccnews/v04/n1821/a02.html

Drug Office Out To Convince Teens Pot Impairs Driving
Lexington Herald-Leader, December 3, 2004
www.mapinc.org/ccnews/v04/n1726/a05.html

Growing danger: Drugged driving
USA Today, Oct 21, 2004
www.usatoday.com/news/nation/2004-10-21-cover-drugged-driving_x.htm

Zero-tolerance drugged driving law doing the job
The Daily Press, July 8, 2004
www.mapinc.org/ccnews/v04/n977/a05.html

Lawmakers Aiming for 'Zero Tolerance' Of Pot-Smoking Drivers
The Athens News, May 5, 2004
www.mapinc.org/ccnews/v04/n683/a02.html

Drugged Driving Statutes Pushed
Boston Globe, March 21, 2004
www.mapinc.org/ccnews/v04/n464/a02.html

New Legislation To Allow Police To Conduct Roadside Tests for Drug Impaired Drivers
Ottawa Citizen, February 23, 2004
www.mapinc.org/ccnews/v04/n319/a07.html

Too Many One Toke Over Line, Police Say
Globe and Mail, February 1, 2003
www.mapinc.org/ccnews/v03/n173/a01.html

Drug Czar, Prohibition Establishment Seek 'Zero Tolerance' for 'Drugged Driving'
The week online with DRCNet, November 22, 2002
www.mapinc.org/ccnews/v02/n2157/a04.html

British Police Plan New Drug Tests For Drivers
Reuters, August 3, 2000
www.mapinc.org/ccnews/v00/n1105/a12.html

Marjiuana Report Too Hot Too Handle
Australian Broadcasting Corporation, October 1998
www.norml.org.nz/Marijuana/Driving.htm#abc981014b

"Steer Clear of Pot" Media Campaign
US Office of National Drug Control Policy
www.mediacampaign.org/steerclear/index.html

chaki (chaki), Thursday, 10 August 2006 22:36 (nineteen years ago)

thx chaki

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 10 August 2006 22:40 (nineteen years ago)

Even Erowid, one of the sources listed, agrees that tests have routinely found that smoking weed impairs driving. The NORML-esque claim is usually they stoned people know they're impaired (and, uh, I know when I'm drunk) and that pot totally makes you drive slow, man.

But it does every last thing I said.

milo z (mlp), Thursday, 10 August 2006 22:46 (nineteen years ago)

"usually that stoned people" not "usually they stoned"

besides, you should include bylines, dude. cannabisculture.com needs that recognition.

milo z (mlp), Thursday, 10 August 2006 22:48 (nineteen years ago)

DOOD YOU WERE PWND. ACCEPT IT.

chaki (chaki), Thursday, 10 August 2006 22:48 (nineteen years ago)

unless that impairment results in increased accidents - which apparently it does not - who gives a shit?

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 10 August 2006 22:49 (nineteen years ago)

Everyone is forgetting that stoned people are incredibly boring. Having driven stoned before, I would have thought that the decrease in reaction time would be a large factor, though I suppose that's all about avoiding accidents and not causing.

The Ultimate Conclusion (lokar), Thursday, 10 August 2006 22:53 (nineteen years ago)

I AGREE WITH YOU THAT YOU ARE BORING.

chaki (chaki), Thursday, 10 August 2006 22:56 (nineteen years ago)

MY NAMES TERRY AND IM A LAW ABIDER

TERRY (gear), Thursday, 10 August 2006 23:04 (nineteen years ago)

HI, TERRY.

chaki (chaki), Thursday, 10 August 2006 23:09 (nineteen years ago)

wait, a guy with a "wooderson" email address is arguing against driving stoned??

oops (Oops), Thursday, 10 August 2006 23:09 (nineteen years ago)

I haven't even argued against driving drunk (though I knew tons of people who made the same excuses - 'I'm MORE CAREFUL when I drive a little drunk'). I'm just saying that Dope Farmers of America might not be the most objective source for DUI info and that the things marijuana does effect do have some impact on your driving abilities.

Driving stoned would be too much work for me anyway. I am not so mobile on teh weed.

which apparently it does not
I think I know why you're such a treat on political topics.

milo z (mlp), Thursday, 10 August 2006 23:40 (nineteen years ago)

i don't think people should drive stoned, but i don't think it's equivalent to driving drunk. there's no need to make the second argument in order to make the first.

oops (Oops), Thursday, 10 August 2006 23:44 (nineteen years ago)

I'm just saying that Dope Farmers of America might not be the most objective source for DUI info and that the things marijuana does effect do have some impact on your driving abilities.


What about the National Highway Transportation Safety Administration, UK Transport Research Laboratory, UK Department of Transportation, University of Adelaide and The University of Toronto?

chaki (chaki), Thursday, 10 August 2006 23:51 (nineteen years ago)

University of Adelaide

i blame esteban

electric sound of jim [and why not] (electricsound), Thursday, 10 August 2006 23:54 (nineteen years ago)

Chaki, did you read all of those reports and check everywhere to make sure there aren't studies with contrary findings, or are you just resting on the assumption that an interested party is providing you unbiased, un-cherry picked info?

milo z (mlp), Thursday, 10 August 2006 23:56 (nineteen years ago)

milo where are you getting your "driving on weed is just as bad as driving drunk" info?

oops (Oops), Thursday, 10 August 2006 23:59 (nineteen years ago)

Driving on speed makes you the last american hero, and gives you psychic links with blind DJs. Barry Newman taught me that.

Louis Jagger (Haberdager), Friday, 11 August 2006 00:02 (nineteen years ago)

I will admit to driving when I've drank more than I should have. Luckily I've always been okay.

I've never driven stoned, because I've never felt even slightly capable of driving when stoned. Seriously, even the idea frightens me.

I'm sure it's different for the habitual dudes though (I only smoke once every few months).

Jordan (Jordan), Friday, 11 August 2006 00:02 (nineteen years ago)

Common sense and personal experience. If you're stoned to the point of drooling, are your reactions sharp enough to avoid a kid who wanders into the road? If you had one beer is your death in a fiery auto crash an absolute certainty?

The thing I see about all of those studies is the arbitrary equivalencies - x beers is y amount of weed smoked that don't have a correlation to the effect on an individual.

milo z (mlp), Friday, 11 August 2006 00:04 (nineteen years ago)

milo, i checked the links. i can link you to other articles and studies if you like. i dont know why you can't just accept your pwning like a man. quit being a poor sport.

chaki (chaki), Friday, 11 August 2006 00:05 (nineteen years ago)

If you're stoned to the point of drooling

anyone that has actually smoked pot in their life would never say this. ganj doesnt do that to people. man you are like the REFER MADNESS of ilx.

chaki (chaki), Friday, 11 August 2006 00:07 (nineteen years ago)

haha way to load the argument! (and where can i get some of that drooling weed? xpost)
so your "common sense and personal experience" trumps a dozen studies by accredited groups?

oops (Oops), Friday, 11 August 2006 00:08 (nineteen years ago)

ganj doesnt do that to people.
Well, that's debatable, but actual drooling wasn't the point - but it's really not more extreme than your apparent marijuana-does-nothing! approach.

And a dozen cherry-picked studies from a weed info group? Yes, I believe it does.

milo z (mlp), Friday, 11 August 2006 00:21 (nineteen years ago)

haha way to load the argument!
Where was this? I didn't set up one beer vs. drooling as common experiences - the point was that 'driving on alcohol is always bad' and 'driving stoned poses no danger whatsoever, what's up with you Puritan assholes' don't really work.

milo z (mlp), Friday, 11 August 2006 00:22 (nineteen years ago)

'driving on alcohol is always bad' and 'driving stoned poses no danger whatsoever, what's up with you Puritan assholes'

where was THIS????

oops (Oops), Friday, 11 August 2006 00:24 (nineteen years ago)

Yes, I believe it does.

ok. common sense and personal experience tells me that you will never admit to not being all-knowing. see ya.

oops (Oops), Friday, 11 August 2006 00:26 (nineteen years ago)

Yes, because saying that a) chong.com isn't a reliable source for objective information and b) marijuana affects physical and mental abilities that you use while driving makes me an all-knowing asshole.

milo z (mlp), Friday, 11 August 2006 00:31 (nineteen years ago)

I hate being stoned. Ick. Panic-attack time.
My husband and I split a bottle of wine and maybe dip into a second bottle every night of the year. Are we drunks? Maybe. But I pull back when my sleep-pattern is affected—when I find myself waking at 3 am with a racing heart and clenched jaw. Insomnia—not as bad as being stoned, but no fun nonetheless.

Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Friday, 11 August 2006 00:53 (nineteen years ago)

I drank a half-a-pint of Sauza Gold while watching The Descent this evening. I snuck it into the theater by tucking the bottle in the waistband of my jeans.

YAY!

100% CHAMPS with a Yes! Attitude. (Austin, Still), Friday, 11 August 2006 00:58 (nineteen years ago)

Movies are SO much better with a mild buzz on. I usually carry in a pint of Dewar's.

Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Friday, 11 August 2006 01:01 (nineteen years ago)

Well, forumlaic horror movies are at least.

That's not fair. I liked it better than that. Check out my review on the newly revived "Descent" thread!

100% CHAMPS with a Yes! Attitude. (Austin, Still), Friday, 11 August 2006 01:11 (nineteen years ago)

The typo "forumlaic" is deserving of enshrinement.

Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Friday, 11 August 2006 01:23 (nineteen years ago)

(courtseys)

100% CHAMPS with a Yes! Attitude. (Austin, Still), Friday, 11 August 2006 01:46 (nineteen years ago)

I was just random-articling Wikipedia and thought I'd start a new thread about Calling False Buffalo, but since there's already an alcoholism thread today....

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buffalo_%28drinking_game%29

Iceland! Now, they're drunks! Beth, you are not a drunk. Plus it takes discipline to make sure there is always a bottle or two in the house.

Maria :D (Maria D.), Friday, 11 August 2006 01:53 (nineteen years ago)

"Once you begin playing Buffalo, you are playing it for the rest of your life."

Maria :D (Maria D.), Friday, 11 August 2006 01:54 (nineteen years ago)

I've drank every night this week so far. 2/3-1 whole bottle of wine each nite. Not unusual for me, but I do try and have 2 or more dry nights a week. This week that ain't happened.

I'm told my liver is a little on the dicey side, but there's reasons in addition to the booze for that in my case. I really should cut back tho. If nothing else, the last 5 years of fairly heavy drinking have given me an extra 15 kg of weight and an honest to gods beer gut.

Trayce (trayce), Friday, 11 August 2006 02:20 (nineteen years ago)

I cut back as I got a little older because I couldn't stand feeling like shit the next day. When I was younger I think I almost enjoyed being a little hungover. It was sort of a light on your feet kind of feeling. Also, if I drink too much now, I just get sleepy in the end. Man, back in the day I could be drunk by 6, and still stay up all night. The great thing about not drinking so much now is that I get a good feeling after only 2 or 3 drinks.

nicky lo-fi (nicky lo-fi), Friday, 11 August 2006 04:16 (nineteen years ago)

http://homepages.nyu.edu/~cch223/usa/images/dk_toodrunktofuck.jpg

trees (treesessplode), Friday, 11 August 2006 04:26 (nineteen years ago)

Alcohol is poison. Great, but poison nonetheless.

trees (treesessplode), Friday, 11 August 2006 04:28 (nineteen years ago)

Well, forumlaic horror movies are at least.

NOT TRUE.

Horror movies are better when you juice up on CAFFEINE beforehand.

Also: Driving stoned, on long drives, just makes shit take longer. When you're delivering pizzas: totally classic.

gbx (skowly), Friday, 11 August 2006 04:35 (nineteen years ago)

Isn't the "safer stoned" driving theory completely attributable to the fact that you tend to drive way too slow when stoned instead of too fast? My sister recently repeated some forumla (how I will henceforth spell it) about force and impact to warn me about fast driving and seat belts. BAsically, the faster you're going, the more fucked up you'll be if you hit a tree. So if you're stoned and going 18 miles an hour, you're safe. So smoke more dope. And give me some.

Maria :D (Maria D.), Friday, 11 August 2006 04:50 (nineteen years ago)

http://tvland.classictvhits.com/AndyGriffith/Pics/AndyGriffith11.JPG

timmy tannin (pompous), Friday, 11 August 2006 05:02 (nineteen years ago)

When you're delivering pizzas: totally classic.

Oh my yes. Favorite job I've ever had. (Not best, just favorite.) Drive around with a one-hitter, listen to music, eat free food when you're done. Common Sense Resurrection still makes me feel like I'm delivering pizza.

Tab Hunter loves to take his shirt off (kenan), Friday, 11 August 2006 05:11 (nineteen years ago)

Yes, because saying that a) chong.com isn't a reliable source for objective information and b) marijuana affects physical and mental abilities that you use while driving makes me an all-knowing asshole.

no, dismissing chaki for cherry-picking, while at the same time having no evidence other than your own "common sense and personal experience" makes you a douchebag. i'm willing to bet i have more personal experience here, and i say that driving drunk and stoned are significantly different, so i'm right regardless of what anyone else says!

oops (Oops), Friday, 11 August 2006 21:08 (nineteen years ago)

well this wasn't very helpful... I wasn't really all that interested in debating the merits/dangers of driving while stoned as much as the alcoholism thing but whatever. One thing that's bugging me in my searches for info is that pretty much everything about family dealing with another members' alcoholism has to do with dealing with a fucked up homelife, which is not really relevant to me. Everybody in my home seems to have been completely oblivious to our alcoholic members' behavior while we were all living together, and learning about it now, when we're all adults, seems kind of unusual (or at least underrepresented in the literature). I can't really find much advice on how to deal with it.

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Friday, 11 August 2006 21:08 (nineteen years ago)

This might be a place to consult a professional. Usually it's the immediate family of alcoholics who have it worse and need treatment, but if you've got legit concerns about your own behavior (and your reaction to it), then it's time to have a chat with someone who knows their shit. You can always question the limits of the privacy agreement, but I believe that illegal drug use would be kept private. Worst that happens is that you spend an hour in a neutral-toned office.

Good luck, and sorry to hear about your relative's problem.

patita (patita), Friday, 11 August 2006 21:49 (nineteen years ago)

thx - yeah this is immediate family. and while I don't feel like I have a problem now (nor does anyone around me including my other family members, my wife, my friends, etc.) I'm freaked because of being heretofore unaware of any genetic predisposition to alcoholism. so my fear is that what may be harmless now may eventually become a major problem. anyway I'm not drinking now, that's for fucking sure.

but beyond that I'd like to find some resources for adult family members of alcoholics that aren't exclusively focused on "omg here's how to recover from yr fucked up childhood" and more focused on "here's how adult family members can help each other". I guess I should just look up the nearest Al-Anon meeting...

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Friday, 11 August 2006 21:54 (nineteen years ago)

can we take the weed vs. alcohol debate elsewhere?

taking sides: booze vs doobie


i choose doobie.

trees (treesessplode), Saturday, 12 August 2006 04:51 (nineteen years ago)

why choose?

oops (Oops), Saturday, 12 August 2006 05:42 (nineteen years ago)

this thread is just proof of how important it is that we keep ilx going. if we don't, where will our long-time regulars go in their hours of need to have their questions pointlessly sidetracked into meaningless and uninteresting arguments?

Shakey I dig where your head is at here. It is common, when a close relation or dear friend suffers as a result of behavior in which you yourself also engage, to wonder whether your behavior isnt also unhealthy. But the real yardstick, the sensible one, is - as others have indicated - is it affecting your life adversely? do you feel like you use liquor/weed to avoid shit, or is it something you do either socially or just for kicks? poster upthread otm in suggesting: ask ppl what they think! yr wife, friends, et al. there are, of course, as in your example, people who hide their habits - but you're not one of those it seems. Love to you!

Thomas Tallis (Tommy), Saturday, 12 August 2006 12:26 (nineteen years ago)

this thread is just proof of how important it is that we keep ilx going. if we don't, where will our long-time regulars go in their hours of need to have their questions pointlessly sidetracked into meaningless and uninteresting arguments?

But T.T., questions always do get answered, even though there are a lot of wacky tangents and tomfoolery. You yourself quote an eminently sensible x-post!

Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Saturday, 12 August 2006 12:50 (nineteen years ago)

thx TT

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Saturday, 12 August 2006 17:48 (nineteen years ago)

this thread is just proof of how important it is that we keep ilx going. if we don't, where will our long-time regulars go in their hours of need to have their questions pointlessly sidetracked into meaningless and uninteresting arguments?

BTW YOU DONT HAVE TO POST OR READ ON ILX!

chaki (chaki), Saturday, 12 August 2006 18:10 (nineteen years ago)

you're so right

however, your point has absolutely nothing to do with whether it'd be a good thing for ilx to sorta bow out gracefully

this isn't actually that hard a point to grasp, but apparently some ppl are so misty-eyed for this shit that they can't grasp the difference between "I still enjoy this place, too, but I think it's run its course, and this thread offers support for that contention" and "I hate it and find nothing redeeming in it"


Thomas Tallis (Tommy), Saturday, 12 August 2006 20:01 (nineteen years ago)

please read preceding post for three days before getting aggro about it, thx

Thomas Tallis (Tommy), Saturday, 12 August 2006 20:02 (nineteen years ago)

NICE WAY TO SIDETRACK THE THREAD TO FIT YR OWN AGENDA THERE, BUDDY. WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU SO QUICK TO FORCE FEED YOUR "LOOK GUYS WE NEED TO END THIS SHIT NOW" MENTALITY? WHY DO YOU CARE IF PEOPLE WANT IT TO CONTINUE? ILX IS NOT YOURS TO DECIDE WHAT HAPPENS. HAVENT YOU LEFT "FOREVER" LIKE 10 TIMES ANYWAY ALWAYS TO COME BACK UNDER A DIFFERENT NAME? WE SHOULD LET IT CONTINUE JUST TO SPITE THE OLD TIMERS. (IM SAYING THIS AS AN OLD TIMER AND SOMEONE THAT DOESNT MIND THREAD DERAILS.)

chaki (chaki), Saturday, 12 August 2006 20:07 (nineteen years ago)

ILX ROOLZ LONG LIVE ILX. THIS SHIT WILL NEVER DIE.

chaki (chaki), Saturday, 12 August 2006 20:08 (nineteen years ago)

Last time I was stoned I had to be helped across the road - my brain literally had trouble perceiving whether there were any cars coming or not.

Earwig oh! (Mark C), Saturday, 12 August 2006 20:16 (nineteen years ago)

haha you don't like my posts don't read 'em chak!

Thomas Tallis (Tommy), Saturday, 12 August 2006 20:28 (nineteen years ago)

and fuck off, man, you know I like you and you can't be in favor of derails that take somebody's pain and turn it into a lame fuckin' copy-n-paste internet stats on stoned driving so ppl can feel good about their weed intake, it's just sad is all

Thomas Tallis (Tommy), Saturday, 12 August 2006 20:30 (nineteen years ago)

I LIKE YOU TOO TOMMY BUT IM SICK OF THIS LET IT DIE SHIT BEING PUT IN MY FACE. I GET ALOT OF ENJOYMENT OUT OF THIS PLACE AND HAVE FOR YEARS AND WOULD LIKE TO FOR YEARS TO COME. ALSO SHAKEY MO TOOK MY OINGO BOINGO THREAD IN 2002 AND MADE IT INTO SOME WEIRD RACE THING SO I FEEL NO SYMPATHY.

chaki (chaki), Saturday, 12 August 2006 20:34 (nineteen years ago)

hahaha

Thomas Tallis (Tommy), Saturday, 12 August 2006 20:35 (nineteen years ago)

IM SORRY I WAS A DICK

chaki (chaki), Saturday, 12 August 2006 20:37 (nineteen years ago)

sorry too chak I mean it should be obvious enough to you (and to anybody else accusing me of "trying to shut ilx down") that I like it here, too, it's just that it's so lame for the most part and has been for, oh, say, the last few years WHICH DOESN'T MEAN I DON'T LIKE IT, MY FAMILY'S LAME TOO BUT I LIKE THEM ALL RIGHT, and it doesn't mean anything bad about ppl here either except that the whole "we must save the place!" is sad in a sort of last-several-season-of-Happy Days style

Thomas Tallis (Tommy), Saturday, 12 August 2006 20:41 (nineteen years ago)

and if it's just totally horrible to make that last observation repeatedly, then ok mea culpa, fine sorry.

Thomas Tallis (Tommy), Saturday, 12 August 2006 20:42 (nineteen years ago)

NAH MAN ITS JUST THAT YOU'RE IMPOSING YOUR PERCEPTION OF THINGS UPON OTHER PEOPLE WHO FEEL NOTHING CLOSE TO YOUR PERCEPTION OF THINGS. DOES THAT MAKE SENSE?

chaki (chaki), Saturday, 12 August 2006 20:46 (nineteen years ago)

yah sure isn't that sorta what the process of discussion is about? just 'cause the stakes seem high doesn't change the dialectic

Thomas Tallis (Tommy), Saturday, 12 August 2006 21:00 (nineteen years ago)

ALSO SHAKEY MO TOOK MY OINGO BOINGO THREAD IN 2002 AND MADE IT INTO SOME WEIRD RACE THING SO I FEEL NO SYMPATHY

haha! oh man it all comes back around eventually

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Tuesday, 15 August 2006 22:14 (nineteen years ago)

(altho that thread introduced me to my favorite mea culpa phrase: "I am stabbing myself in the face RIGHT NOW")

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Tuesday, 15 August 2006 22:15 (nineteen years ago)

thomas that was a very uninteresting tangent. it's not that hard to grasp that tangents do not prevent talk on the main subject. in this case, more people found the tangent more interesting than the main. without it, there wouldn't be more advice to shakey, but just a dead thread.

oops (Oops), Tuesday, 15 August 2006 23:20 (nineteen years ago)

i decided to stop drinking a few nights ago. it'd been about 5 or 6 months since i'd gone more than one night without drinking and about that long since i hadn't felt hungover for at least part of the day. i would usually drink about 750 ml of whiskey per night, 2-7 cocktails at a bar, and 5 or 6 beers when i got home. i drove drunk pretty regularly. finally though, i fell asleep the other night (alone, while my girlfriend was out) with a lit cigarette in the bed. luckily it went out, but that event combined with a luckily timed trip from an ex who is now sober was enough to inspire me to get, uhh, healthier.

had my first awkward encounter with a person trying to buy me a drink last night then hugging me and whispering to me that they applauded my decision. dj'd sober for the first time in a VERY long time.

it's not so much that i thought that i had a problem that was actually hindering my ability to perform the function of life to the satisfaction of others, but that i thought i was setting up a situation where i would have a lot of serious problems to deal with at an undetermined date.

i also quit smoking. both are going pretty well and not nearly as difficult yet as i imagined/have experienced before.

firstworldman (firstworldman), Thursday, 17 August 2006 17:11 (nineteen years ago)

good on ya - that's def. not a healthy amount of liquor to be running through yr system on a regular basis

Shakey Mo Collier (Shakey Mo Collier), Thursday, 17 August 2006 17:26 (nineteen years ago)

"750 ml of whiskey per night, 2-7 cocktails at a bar, and 5 or 6 beers when i got home."

Holy SHIT! Are you, like, Paul Bunyan or something? Cause I'm not a little bitty guy, and I'm sure that would kill me.

100% CHAMPS with a Yes! Attitude. (Austin, Still), Thursday, 17 August 2006 20:54 (nineteen years ago)

That's great, and between quitting the booze and smokes, you'll soon be rolling in money.

Danny Aioli (Rock Hardy), Thursday, 17 August 2006 20:58 (nineteen years ago)

see this thread:
Friends call me Gunz, sons call me trife, Cause I'm quick to slide off and slide this dick up in your wife

slow jamz and white guy indie acoustic shit (Chris V), Thursday, 17 August 2006 20:59 (nineteen years ago)

I too am slowly backing down on the booze, after I realised I'd been doing close to a bottle of wine a night. I've had 3 boozefree days this week, and plan to extend it all weekend if I can. Not drinking on the weekend is the biggest one: if I can get past the "well it doesnt matter if I'm hugover its saturday" reasoning and still not drink, I'll be happy.

Trayce (trayce), Thursday, 17 August 2006 23:34 (nineteen years ago)

Holy SHIT! Are you, like, Paul Bunyan or something? Cause I'm not a little bitty guy, and I'm sure that would kill me.

well, i'm not huge or anything, but it's definitely an amount you have to work up to.

good luck, trayce. for me, somehow it's been the boredom of weekday evenings that's been harder.

firstworldman (firstworldman), Friday, 18 August 2006 16:20 (nineteen years ago)

I've decided to drink more since the rest of you are all backing off. We wouldn't want the vineyards to suffer.

Beth Parker (Beth Parker), Sunday, 20 August 2006 00:19 (nineteen years ago)

I've drank pretty much 90% of all nights for the past 5 months. Not getting sloppy drunk, but buzzed enough each time. If I don't drink, I take a nap or ambien trip. i get dizzy spells sometimes during the day. Work hasn't been affected much. But I lack motivation on everything else. No problems as of yet!

Rorison Meadows (rorytmeadows), Sunday, 27 August 2006 23:33 (nineteen years ago)

that averages about 6-6.5 nights per week

Rorison Meadows (rorytmeadows), Sunday, 27 August 2006 23:34 (nineteen years ago)

or just under a 1.75L per week

Rorison Meadows (rorytmeadows), Sunday, 27 August 2006 23:34 (nineteen years ago)

two years pass...

four days and counting.

i've been drinking until i'm drunk or really drunk 4-5 times a week for almost a year. i just admitted to myself i have a problem, so i'm taking a break for as long as i can hold out. i laughed really hard at "fuck you, you're a mormon, next to you everyone has a drinking problem" in burn after reading.

i feel good, but i don't know what to do with myself during the hours i used piss away before. school and work will keep me busy during the week. i'm pretty bad at filling the rest of the time though. suggestions?

Matt P, Saturday, 27 September 2008 00:10 (seventeen years ago)

Hey good for you!

There's a Mormon in 'burn after reading'???

Abbott, Saturday, 27 September 2008 00:15 (seventeen years ago)

  • Make a log cabin from toothpicks and Elmers glue
  • Sharpen your skills at making prank phone calls
  • organize that closet
  • learn how to conjugate verbs in modern greek
  • daydream about comitting mayhem on Dick Cheney
  • find names for abstruse colors
That should get you started!

Aimless, Saturday, 27 September 2008 00:17 (seventeen years ago)

suggestions?

http://skattertech.com/media/2007/12/wii-ps3-xbox360.jpg

El Tomboto, Saturday, 27 September 2008 00:18 (seventeen years ago)

and get a club soda machine.

El Tomboto, Saturday, 27 September 2008 00:19 (seventeen years ago)

Tombot OTM

Abbott, Saturday, 27 September 2008 00:19 (seventeen years ago)

alternatively, exercise. bikes, hikes, weights, animal taming.

El Tomboto, Saturday, 27 September 2008 00:19 (seventeen years ago)

john malkovich's cia boss

got a fresh law and order torrent w/ my name on it tonight.

xxpost

Matt P, Saturday, 27 September 2008 00:22 (seventeen years ago)

got the exercise thing going. weights and slayer are awesome.

wii and weed is a wise investment.

Matt P, Saturday, 27 September 2008 00:27 (seventeen years ago)

tv on dvd.

ian, Saturday, 27 September 2008 00:40 (seventeen years ago)

Become obsessed with all types of music and maintain up-to-the-minute information at all times. If you can't enjoy all types, pick at least two like Techno or Chart Pop that keep you ridiculously busy reading mp3 blogs.

I know, right?, Saturday, 27 September 2008 00:44 (seventeen years ago)

Although, this might just make you want to drink more!

I know, right?, Saturday, 27 September 2008 00:44 (seventeen years ago)

do you play bass guitar currently matt p?

ILX Systern (ken c), Saturday, 27 September 2008 01:17 (seventeen years ago)

bass guitar is a gateway drug dude. this has been proven.

El Tomboto, Saturday, 27 September 2008 01:54 (seventeen years ago)

http://www.musictimes.com.au/images/sid-vicious1.jpg

velko, Saturday, 27 September 2008 02:37 (seventeen years ago)

Bass guitar leads to playing bass guitar through a guitar amp, so y'better watch it dude.

⇧⇧⇧ (libcrypt), Saturday, 27 September 2008 02:40 (seventeen years ago)

you know what would REALLY fill up that free time? a comprehensive treatment program for your addiction!

cankles, Saturday, 27 September 2008 03:49 (seventeen years ago)

give ebaums credit where it's due, ade

El Tomboto, Saturday, 27 September 2008 03:56 (seventeen years ago)

?

cankles, Saturday, 27 September 2008 03:57 (seventeen years ago)

idk what ur talkin about, i just mean to say that tellin an alcoholic to smoke weed and read music blogs is the absolute height of irresponsibility (esp the music blogz part)

cankles, Saturday, 27 September 2008 04:03 (seventeen years ago)

oh right, this is the internet, where people have responsibilities to each other.

El Tomboto, Saturday, 27 September 2008 16:20 (seventeen years ago)

i'm thinking about treatment options. i've got counseling so i have the hookup when i need it. a+ weekend so far though, we'll see how long i can keep it up.

Matt P, Saturday, 27 September 2008 19:50 (seventeen years ago)

tidy up. ditch the case logics! dance with yr cat like nobodys looking. wanna go to olvera st. tonight? biday party but you know the dude. i won't drink if you go, no biggie

get it right in utah (tremendoid), Saturday, 27 September 2008 22:18 (seventeen years ago)

bday party same diff

get it right in utah (tremendoid), Saturday, 27 September 2008 22:18 (seventeen years ago)

every day is bi day

jergins, Saturday, 27 September 2008 22:24 (seventeen years ago)

I don't know if anyone is looking for longwinded anecdotes, but this topic is right up my alley:

FWIW, I quit drinking about two months ago. I thought I might be an alcoholic, but I was able to get past the psychological withdrawal processs with no physical side effects. Up to that point, I drank (most of the time to at least mild intoxication) almost every day/night without fail. I have gone on one or two week dry stints before, but have been mostly fucked up since 1997 or so. My quitting was essential to overcoming a severe depressive slump, which I was certainly self-medicating for. Beyond that, though, I just really liked to drink. At this point, I've mostly lost my appetite for it and have been engaging in situations that I wouldn't have dared approach a month ago b/c temptation for the booze would be intolerable: bar gatherings, parties & the like. But now, having extricated the drink from my life and the clouds from my brain, I feel realistically confident that I can once again drink modestly in social situations, etc.

Actual, physical addiction to alcohol IS indeed something that one generally is or is not genetically predisposed toward, especially if there is a history of it on both sides of your family. I am fortunate not have developed any of those, despite that I should have reasonably expected to, given the extent of my indulgence. Withdrawal from real physical alcohol addiction is horrendous and nearly impossible to maintain. So if you are at all suspicious of your genetic history, its probably not best to roll the dice to too great of an extent.

Also, if you're tying on a lot of tight ones for and extended period of time, you should have your liver enzyme levels checked by your doctor at least once a year. If you're over by just a bit, you can cut back and correct for the increase with minimal personal sacrifice. Fatty liver and such take a long time to develop, so as long as you maintain some modicum of surveillance on your enzyme levels, and are confident of your lack of alcoholic genes, you could probably afford at least a few years of Bukowski-level without utterly destroying your life.

Pillbox, Saturday, 27 September 2008 23:21 (seventeen years ago)

I recently had to translate a Dutch research paper about "problem drinking in the Netherlands". They made a clear distinction between alcoholism, which they consider the physical dependency, and problem drinking which is drinking that sometimes causes problems. They also stressed the range of severity of problem drinking. They found that many people are problem drinkers whose drinking only very occasionally causes problems and found that the *benefits* of drinking often outweighed the problems for those people (social contact, reduced stress). I think we are quick to label heavy drinkers alcoholics. Sometimes an all or nothing approach just sets people up to fail and doesn't help the problem.

I drink some beer or wine most nights and have for more years than I care to admit. It has taken a toll on me, I'm sure. But I don't think my life would be any happier if I went cold turkey. When I have, for 8 months the longest time, I found myself bored and isolated and depressed. I just try to be careful about not binging too often.

Maria :D, Saturday, 27 September 2008 23:24 (seventeen years ago)

"Bukowski-level booze consumption"

Pillbox, Saturday, 27 September 2008 23:24 (seventeen years ago)

Think it's gonna be 8.5 for yours truly.

Abbott, Saturday, 27 September 2008 23:31 (seventeen years ago)

good posts pillbox & maria

jergins, Saturday, 27 September 2008 23:56 (seventeen years ago)

FWIW, I quit drinking about two months ago. I thought I might be an alcoholic, but I was able to get past the psychological withdrawal processs with no physical side effects. Up to that point, I drank (most of the time to at least mild intoxication) almost every day/night without fail. I have gone on one or two week dry stints before, but have been mostly fucked up since 1997 or so. My quitting was essential to overcoming a severe depressive slump, which I was certainly self-medicating for. Beyond that, though, I just really liked to drink. At this point, I've mostly lost my appetite for it and have been engaging in situations that I wouldn't have dared approach a month ago b/c temptation for the booze would be intolerable: bar gatherings, parties & the like. But now, having extricated the drink from my life and the clouds from my brain, I feel realistically confident that I can once again drink modestly in social situations, etc.

dogg, you're clearly an addict. there's no other word, no other diagnosis for someone who spends a decade+ getting fucked up day in, day out. you're bright enough to rationalize your way out of admitting this, but it's the same element of ego that's preventing you from committing yourself to the kind of help that you really need, because even though you perceive your problem you cannot divorce yourself from the idea that you can do it 'your' way.

¯\(°_o)/¯

cankles, Sunday, 28 September 2008 00:30 (seventeen years ago)

Oh man 12-step treatment program debate spiral: will it be entered?

Abbott, Sunday, 28 September 2008 00:31 (seventeen years ago)

lol

artdamages, Sunday, 28 September 2008 00:37 (seventeen years ago)

'へ'凸

cankles, Sunday, 28 September 2008 00:39 (seventeen years ago)

Dude, I'm sure AA works wonders for some. I am totally and truly fine with being able to take or leave the booze at this point. And if you think I'm rationalizing to the point of self-delusion, I'd like to point out that I've been going through this process with a therapist, so no. Psychological and emotional addictions can be overcome, some more easily than others (depending on the circumstances, etc.). B/C the "addiction" factor of my drinking habits was rooted squarely in clinical depression, combatting the depression itself (and its multitude of unfortunate byproducts, the alcohol dependence being only one), I have been able to put drinking behind me in the same order that I've made other restorative changes to my lifestyle.

Pillbox, Sunday, 28 September 2008 00:43 (seventeen years ago)

lol sure thing drinky crow

http://forbiddenplanet.co.uk/blog/wp-content/uploads/2007/05/Drinky%20Crow%20Animation.jpg

cankles, Sunday, 28 September 2008 00:52 (seventeen years ago)

Cankles: You are quite clever, for a troll.

Pillbox, Sunday, 28 September 2008 00:57 (seventeen years ago)

cankles, Sunday, 28 September 2008 01:02 (seventeen years ago)

xpost: early directorial effort from David Fincher. Anyway cankles, I've turned a new leaf, and you can too:

Pillbox, Sunday, 28 September 2008 01:09 (seventeen years ago)

Pillbox, Sunday, 28 September 2008 01:10 (seventeen years ago)

Pillbox, Sunday, 28 September 2008 01:11 (seventeen years ago)

OK this is not working. Mods, please delete those empty u2be boxes. Link here

Pillbox, Sunday, 28 September 2008 01:14 (seventeen years ago)

haha yeah i know, his finest work imo. btw: http://pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/imgad?id=CJXZ48SLs-WbygEQrAIY7wEyCJzJbVs0Xbhl

cankles, Sunday, 28 September 2008 01:16 (seventeen years ago)

Moderation Management to thread. Anyone have any experience with this approach?

quincie, Sunday, 28 September 2008 15:34 (seventeen years ago)

When I have, for 8 months the longest time, I found myself bored and isolated and depressed. I just try to be careful about not binging too often.

Yeah, it's weird-- way back in the early 2000's, I all but stopped drinking for two solid years. I felt like I lost some of my humanity during that time...but I think that's in no small part due to my personal temperament-- I'm not exactly a raging extrovert, so at times drank helps me to get out of my head and interact with the other human beings.

But yeah, it definitely contributed to a sense of social isolation...I mean, I didn't mind hanging out with friends and being the one guy who was sipping on soda water the entire time, but what did bother me was the fact that in those days I was scheming to ingratiate myself with some local pub personnel, b/c I had ambitions to set up some dj nights...and, well, the idea of being a "regular" who drinks exclusively water struck me as being a game plan that even I in all of my abject foolishness was too prudent to attempt.

These days I have a "five-day plan", which is to say that I will abstain from drink for five days, and then will booze it up for one evening, and often will start drinking early the next day, partly to counteract any hangover residue, and partly just to enjoy myself. Welcome to the working week.

dell, Sunday, 28 September 2008 18:13 (seventeen years ago)

Last night I drank without being able to get drunk :(

Kramkoob (Catsupppppppppppppp dude 茄蕃), Sunday, 28 September 2008 18:17 (seventeen years ago)

Ouch.

I felt strangely proud of myself last night. I was at this party where there was not only multiple kegsa beer, but also an open bar (in someone's backyard! this was crazy, I tells ya). Anyhow, when 2:30 or so rolled around, I said to myself, "Yeah, I'm done. I can't drink no more." Part of me is almost surprised that I didn't try to poison myself further. I'm thinking that it had a lot to do with the overall way good vibes of the evening...

dell, Sunday, 28 September 2008 18:25 (seventeen years ago)

I also have this weird thing where I enjoy drinking in all of the situations which are culturally frowned upon-- alone, early in the day, on an empty stomach, etc.

Drinking provides me with access to parts of my psyche that I have not yet found a way to get to through other means. Maybe I should just become a MARIJUANA ADDICT, but, I dunno...I've never been much good at smoking. Also I think if I launched myself into a daily regimen along those lines such as some of my friends practice, I think it would conflict with other aspects of my lifestyle. Or something...

dell, Sunday, 28 September 2008 18:32 (seventeen years ago)

I bought a 375 ml bottle of bourbon the other day (Jack Daniel's, eh) and have not yet opened it bcz my past month or so has been a wreck of nervous stomach.

Abbott, Sunday, 28 September 2008 21:34 (seventeen years ago)

Well, it's living there for now. It won't drink itself.

I am pretty consistently a beer person. I've bought a couple of bottles of fancy scotch whisky in the past, and every once in a while I will have me some Jamison or whatever when I'm out, but otherwise I'm just doing beer, which I think ultimately is a good thing. From a strictly biological angle, it's kinda difficult to get into trouble with beer.

dell, Sunday, 28 September 2008 21:43 (seventeen years ago)

I always accidentally spill beer all over myself and sometimes my furniture. I am worried my couch maybe reeks of beer.

Abbott, Sunday, 28 September 2008 21:56 (seventeen years ago)

Heh I spilled cider all over me and my laptop pc late last year one night... luckily the pc was ok. Since we moved, my rampant "sit on the couch alone drinking and chain smoking all night" has ceased because I now have to smoke outside (which is not easy or fun in winter). This is a good thing, as it put the brakes on my compulsiveness. I still indulge a lot, but have been able to say "yeah thats enough for me tonight" after one drink, or just not have any if I dont feel like it, rather than just having it regardless.

My liver enzyme levels are back to normal now. You dont want to know where they were before. Even my GP didnt indicate quite how bad they were - wasnt til I got online and did some reading I realised I'd been a bit of a mess.

But it hasnt ever got so bad it's fucked up my life. A bad spot last year where I was ditching work a lot, but that was for all kinds of other reasons too (breakup, depression, etc).

Interesting thing, is that my tolerance for w33d has diminished massively since early this year. I had a break from it for six months and now any more than one pipe and I'm COMPLETELY WRECKED. Maybe thats just aging?

Trayce, Sunday, 28 September 2008 23:28 (seventeen years ago)

I really hate weed, I hate smoke anyway, but it just makes me feel loose and woozy and not quite centred. Half a bottle of whiskey gives me six legs and a temper and I like it much better that way.

I know, right?, Monday, 29 September 2008 00:21 (seventeen years ago)

eh i fucked up and drank a six-pack last night, so much for my golden promise. i'm not too worried though, just because it felt so good to be sober for five days and kinda crappy to be drunk last night, physically, even though i was out and not at home, so i hope i can internalize the costs/benefits and keep cutting back. i don't drink for the sake of drinking; i do it for other reasons, and it doesn't help, it just makes me tired and useless the next day.

Matt P, Monday, 29 September 2008 00:37 (seventeen years ago)

cigs on the other hand...

Matt P, Monday, 29 September 2008 00:37 (seventeen years ago)

Cigs make me wake up feeling like a barbecue grill.

Abbott, Monday, 29 September 2008 00:49 (seventeen years ago)

i gave up cigarettes cos of waking up feeling my breath was like the smell of a half full can your friend has tipped ash in all night...

Local Garda, Monday, 29 September 2008 00:54 (seventeen years ago)

Carver-esque

I know, right?, Monday, 29 September 2008 00:55 (seventeen years ago)

brush your damn teeth

For technical assistance, please contact our Support Team (electricsound), Monday, 29 September 2008 00:58 (seventeen years ago)

fuck cigarettes...brush your rotting lungs. or just stop. and stop standing downwind of repulsed human beings.

Local Garda, Monday, 29 September 2008 01:02 (seventeen years ago)

i recommend that all smokers give up and then realise how repulsive it is, in an even bigger way than people who have never smoked ever will.

Local Garda, Monday, 29 September 2008 01:03 (seventeen years ago)

good advice!!

Matt P, Monday, 29 September 2008 02:13 (seventeen years ago)

I've hiked and drank before!

Kerm, Monday, 29 September 2008 02:34 (seventeen years ago)

It's awesome when someone asks for a drink from your Nalgene and gets a mouthful of margarita.

Kerm, Monday, 29 September 2008 02:36 (seventeen years ago)

I used to drink beer while working out (insert hilarious "six-pack" pun here).

Pillbox, Monday, 29 September 2008 02:46 (seventeen years ago)

Ive given up smoken pretty much recently. I end up smoking one cig 3 weeks later. than 2 more the next wekk and 3 more the next week (all when Im drinking). at first I found cig smoke repulsive when I gave it up but if u only smoke up to 3 cigs a week its not so bad.

CaptainLorax, Monday, 29 September 2008 02:49 (seventeen years ago)

It's awesome when someone asks for a drink from your Nalgene and gets a mouthful of margarita.

otm, also works with a picnic thermos full of mojito with mint and lime bits all floating around

El Tomboto, Monday, 29 September 2008 03:35 (seventeen years ago)

I bought my first steel flask last month!

El Tomboto, Monday, 29 September 2008 03:35 (seventeen years ago)

Do we have a thread for "coming back to work after happy hour" stories? This is an alarming trend in my town.

El Tomboto, Monday, 29 September 2008 03:36 (seventeen years ago)

i want a flask but the liquor doesn't carry them

eman, Monday, 29 September 2008 03:44 (seventeen years ago)

liquor store*

eman, Monday, 29 September 2008 03:44 (seventeen years ago)

Hahah Tom that used to happen at the previous ISP I worked at a LOT. We'd have work drinks once a month then end up back in the call centre, pished, with the sup trying to get us to shut the hell up because customers probably dont want to hear drunken slurred shouting in the background while they're trying to log onto their Yahoomail.

Trayce, Monday, 29 September 2008 04:40 (seventeen years ago)

Also, one guy walked face first really heavily into the glass wall of the boss's office. Its a wonder he didnt crash right through it.

Trayce, Monday, 29 September 2008 04:41 (seventeen years ago)

Do we have a thread for "coming back to work after happy hour" stories?

http://www.daemonstv.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/03/nup_116909_0332.JPG

Pillbox, Monday, 29 September 2008 07:09 (seventeen years ago)

http://www.theage.com.au/ffximage/2007/08/08/men_wideweb__470x288,0.jpg

t_g, Monday, 29 September 2008 08:09 (seventeen years ago)

two years pass...

Flasks = never a good idea.

thirdalternative, Sunday, 21 November 2010 21:03 (fifteen years ago)

twelve years pass...

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-64464406

xyzzzz__, Wednesday, 8 February 2023 11:41 (three years ago)

three months pass...

Quite an interesting book about recovery, coupled with Alzheimer's, but they also happened a while ago too.

https://www.anothermag.com/design-living/14906/octavia-bright-this-ragged-grace-addiction-memoir-literary-friction

xyzzzz__, Friday, 2 June 2023 13:18 (two years ago)

Not sure I'd describe it as an "achievement."

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Friday, 2 June 2023 13:23 (two years ago)

The book?

The Original Human Beat Surrender (James Redd and the Blecchs), Friday, 2 June 2023 13:48 (two years ago)

oh, the thread title, never mind.

The Original Human Beat Surrender (James Redd and the Blecchs), Friday, 2 June 2023 13:48 (two years ago)

Yes, sorry, the thread title.

immodesty blaise (jimbeaux), Friday, 2 June 2023 15:08 (two years ago)


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