Sex buddies wit the ex

If you have to ask, you already know. You just want either validation or talking-out-of. Pick one, like it, and you're set.

xpost; then you didn't run, Colin! I meant the folks who don't even seem to stick around for the answer.

Ex-Sex, yay or nay

and then this:

Yr ex admitting publicly that he likes you "just as much as before." Now what?

FWIW we are now back together and so far so good.

First, a couple of questions, then some answers.

1) Is your name a bastardization of "Super" Love or "Supper" Love? This is very important to get an idea of whether you are of normal proportion, or just overly fond of supper. When you're tipping the scales at 425 lbs, or even stones--what do I know--it's a very different answer. Yes, Supa, it's possible to love supper TOO much.

2) Are you sure you wouldn't rather have some tips on dying your already black-died hair medium brown? Or an ashe blonde to strawberry blonde? Because we're very, very good with this sort of advice. It's what we do for a living.

Now that that's settled, if you still want relationship advice, read Sam's threads. She's on the record as having experience with this issue. Other people's advice may be a tad hypothetical. Not that this is a bad thing. Not for us. But perhaps for you.

But more importantly, are you sure some of your self esteem issues aren't tied to your hair color? Because I think they are. It's that mousy quality that is at the root of your anger. We've seen it before.

Oh well.

See you later.

So anyway, it was pretty good. There was almost no kissing. When I was finished, I dressed and left. That's it. If we hook up again, cool. But I really don't expect to be thinking of him beyond that.

If I even start to feel inklings of that. . .well I'll shoot myself in the foot to keep me restrained to the house and then beat myself daily. I don't think even *I'm* that stupid.

AHAHAHAHAH!!

Hmmm. We've had a couple of blowouts but have dealt well with the aftermath. We've discussed honestly the problems we had before and how we can avoid them this time. Like I said, so far so good.

He's had a couple of bad relationships since me (and, honestly, it seems like I've been his best one. I'm the only ex he still has contact with and the only one he's ever gotten back with) and I'm willing to believe that we've both learned things and can avoid making the same mistakes.

I was tired of dating around when I met him and really didn't find any love in the two yrs we've been apart (infatuation and obsession yes, but that's it). He's also said that he's realized what's important in his life and what he needs to make his priorities (he just turned 37 so perhaps it's the age creeping up on him). He claims I am one of those things he realizes he needs in his life.

If it crashes and burns. . .well no one will kick my ass harder than myself.

Y'all think I'm a bitter bitch now. . .

My advice would be "don't do it" but you know, I'm not you, and I don't know your ex.

(I don't know why I keep reading and/or posting to these advice threads. Like others have said, if you're asking the question, you've probably already made up your mind. And the advice given on ILX is not necessarily the best, but just the loudest shouting.)

is it a bad idea to have sex with an ex about 3 years after you broke up?

i guess it depends on all of the other information that you will dripfeed into the thread as it goes on.

no.

try this thread

meeting up with exes - c or d

it's quite easy to pull this off as you probably know everything you already hate about this person. so if the sex is good, you have nothing to lose if everyone keeps their emotions out of it. which is possible.

try this thread

meeting up with exes - c or d

― Then, it dawned on me: "I HAVE BEEN PLAYED!" (omar little), Tuesday, July 14, 2009 7:13 PM (1 minute ago) Bookmark Suggest Ban Permalink

hahahahaha 100%

when it's over propose marriage

n/m.

haha

ilx needs a delete thread function. i forgot about that.